Amid growing concerns about social isolation in men, Great Mates Meet is creating a welcoming space for men in Logan to connect and support one another.
But in Logan, Great Mates Meet is changing that, offering a space where men of all ages can come together, share a laugh, and support each other.
Run through Kingston East Neighbourhood Group, the program is led by Hayden Esparon, who has been coordinating the group for the past three and a half years.
With a dual degree in justice and human services from QUT, he was initially searching for a role in community services when he stumbled upon a rare job posting for a men’s worker.
Intrigued, he took a chance, traveling from North Brisbane to Logan for the interview.
It was a decision that changed his life.
“I really enjoyed the environment and the people interviewing me, and I was actually hoping I would get the role,” he said.
“Luckily, I did, and I’ve been with the men’s group ever since.”
The need for a program like Great Mates Meet is clear.
While women often form natural support networks through social activities, men can struggle to find similar opportunities outside of work or sports.
Many of the group’s members have found themselves socially isolated, a reality that was only magnified during COVID-19.
“Men don’t always have many avenues for social connection,” Mr Esparon said.
“Friendships often form through work or sports, but when that’s no longer an option, whether due to retirement, unemployment, or disability, many men find themselves isolated.”
Unlike traditional men’s sheds that focus on woodworking or mechanical activities, Great Mates Meet operates as a social group.
There are no membership fees, no paperwork, and no expectations, just a welcoming space where men can drop in, share a meal, and connect.
“Most of the time, it’s just casual conversation,” Mr Esparon.
“But every now and then, someone will open up about a personal issue, and the group steps in with support. That’s what makes it so powerful.”
Over time, the program has expanded to include excursions and skill-building opportunities.
The group has enjoyed fishing trips to Bribie Island, rounds of golf, and even an expo for International Men’s Day to showcase support services available in Logan.
Mr Esparon has also introduced psychological first aid training, empowering members to help not just themselves but also their families and friends.
For Mr Esparon, the job is more than just a role, it’s about building lasting relationships and creating a genuine sense of community.
“In many jobs, you work with a client for six months and then move on,” he said.
“But I’ve known some of these guys for over three years now. The long-term connection is special.”
Great Mates Meet runs every Friday from 9am to 12pm at the Kingston East Neighbourhood Group Centre located at 177 Meakin Road, Slacks Creek.
